His Battle is Finally Over

The doctors were kind of concerned when we told them that we were going to be out of town for a few days. Ronnie was fading fast. I felt bad about leaving, but it couldn’t be helped. We got back into town late one evening and I was up to see him the next morning.

I was shocked to see the difference in how Ronnie looked. His eye were almost completely closed and his words were just a whisper.  I gently sat down on the edge of his bed. When he saw me he reached up and pulled me close. He put his arms around me as best he could and whispered, “I love you.” Those were his last words to me.

i stayed almost all day with him, and left late in the afternoon. I regretted leaving, because my phone rang about 3:30 am. It was the nurse telling me that I needed to come to the hospital. By the time I arrived, he was gone. Ronnie stepped into heaven.

Next post: the VA send off.

Another Family Death, New Lessons Learned

It has been quite a while since I added a new post to this blog.  In a way, that’s good because it means that life has been relatively calm for our family.  However, this last month, my sister passed away, and even though she did not have cancer, we did, as a family, walk down a similar path to those families dealing with cancer.

In the next several posts I will chronicle my sister’s passing and share with you the things I learned. I will share the love and the sorrow; the bitter and the sweet.